Letting go and living life as it is

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Biggest mistake of life "Begging someone to stay, when they are leaving."

Never again will i ask someone to stay or leave in my life again. Its your choice and mine to stay or to leave. If you are willing to stay, you are most welcome to be part of the journey. And if you are leaving, I need not show you the way out. Life is all about choices and we all have our own choice be it friends, partners, career and what's not. You had your own choice and I had mine, why should I and so does you for one go against another person choice.

There's not point apologizing for your wrong deeds over and over again, yet it doesn't mean been upright and arrogant all the time. Mistakes are part and parcels of everyone and every relationship yet a simple and sincere sorry is enough. If afterall the other person can't accept your sincere apology, truth be told you better pack up your things and leave before it's too late. The longer you stay the more hurt you are inviting to come to your life. Its never easy to let go and will never be, no matter how good or bad it is or the person is but the truth is it's better to let go and let it be. Time will take its course and you will one day be glad for the choice you made today.

Many people would still argue that letting go and regretting latter is worst. Its because of our own that we regrets. Firstly you didn't fully let go and secondly you ended up with a lesser good. In first case, it's necessary to plan meticulously the steps to let go and follow it wholeheartedly. In latter case it's you to be blame, for with that experience you could have made a informed choice and be in the right path or with the right person. Also in either case it's not certain that it would have been better with it.

Let me end with a quote by E.M Forster: " We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned, so as to have the live that is waiting for us."

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